Kerry Norton interview by Yahoo News

Road safety ambassador Kerry Norton was interviewed by Yahoo News about her road trauma story. Kerry makes sure her family members never drive while they’re tired, and she shares her story to encourage others to be responsible while behind the wheel.

“If you’re getting behind the wheel, or if you know someone who you’re sitting beside is fatigued, offer, ‘Can I drive for you?’, or vice versa, ask, ‘Should I be driving?” Ms Norton says.

“Especially to drink drivers. If your friend has drunk too much, it’s your responsibility to let them know not to get behind the wheel.”

Her message is to remind people all it takes is a split second.

“You can kill someone and go to jail, or you can lose a family member, or two like I did, my husband and my daughter, in a split second.”

A big thank you to Kerry, for sharing your story.

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Melinda Dine interview by The Age about the untold impact of road trauma

Melinda Dine, Road Safety Ambassador, recently shared her road trauma story with The Age. Melinda shares her story at our education programs, to create change on our roads.

“A real way to make some sense and good out of something that is really tragic.”

At the start of some education sessions, the offenders come in “full of bravado” and are “just there to tick a box”.

“But I guarantee you there is a monumental shift after they hear our stories. You can almost see it, it’s like a physical realisation.”

A big thank you to Melinda for sharing her story.

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Road trauma memorial gets underway

The Victorian State Government has begun work has begun on a new memorial at Geelong’s waterfront to give people who have experienced road trauma a place to reflect and remember.

Ocean Grove’s Don Walters’ concept ‘Solace’ will be an enduring memorial for people to contemplate the impacts of road trauma and to remember people who have lost their lives on Victorian roads.

Member for Geelong Christine Couzens recently joined Mr Walters to announce the start of works on the memorial.

The sculpture will have a permanent home along the picturesque eastern Geelong waterfront, off Hearne Parade, where the views will provide a peaceful place for remembering.

The memorial and its design will create a place for all people affected by road trauma to visit and remember their loved ones, as well as raise awareness for Road Trauma Support Services Victoria (RTSSV), who offer support services for people impacted by road trauma.

The TAC has partnered with the City of Greater Geelong to deliver the road trauma memorial project with support from RTSSV and the Uniting Church of Australia (UCAVT).

Representatives from the TAC and City of Greater Geelong, along with TAC clients and community members affected by road trauma, were all involved in the selection process of the successful artwork.

The City of Greater Geelong is undertaking landscaping works around the memorial site to create a welcoming space with all-abilities access.

The project is expected to be completed by the middle of this year.

Caption: Pictured (from left), artist Don Walters, Manager Towards Zero Engagement Meg Jacobs, City of Greater Geelong councillor Pat Murnane, Member for Geelong Christine Couzens, City of Greater Geelong Deputy Mayor Kylie Grzybek.

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Jeanette Suhr OAM interview by royalauto

Losing a child changes a person in fundamental ways. “Your hopes and dreams are gone.” Jeanette Suhr OAM, who has been part of our organisation right from the very beginning, was recently interviewed by RACV magazine royalauto about her road trauma story, continue reading.

The pain of losing her beautiful 19-year-old daughter Tanya in 1991 never leaves Jeanette.

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If you or someone you know has experienced road trauma and may need support call 1300 367 797 and book an appointment with one our counsellors.

Time for Remembering 2019

On Sunday 17 November 2019, we held our 19th annual Time for Remembering ceremony at Parliament House, which is the United Nation’s World Day of Remembrance for Road Traffic Victims. This day is dedicated to remembering the many millions killed and injured in road crashes, their families and friends and the many others whose lives are affected. It is also designed to give thanks to emergency services and all who work tirelessly to reduce road trauma.

This annual event is held to remember those who have died, those who continue to suffer, and the impact of road trauma on our community.

We are very grateful to RTSSV’s Art Therapy Group, members of which worked throughout the year to create ‘Clay Tokens of Remembrance’, individual artworks that were exhibited at the ceremony — dedicated to our loved ones and to all people who have been killed or injured on our roads.

We warmly thank the Reverend Andy Calder for leading the ceremony, The Hon. Jaala Pulford for delivering a message from the state government, and Jeanette Suhr OAM, for sharing her story

Thank you to all who contributed to this special event, including Joe Califiore, TAC; Assistant Commissioner Stephen Leane, Victoria Police; Michael Johnson, Harpist; Barbara Joyce and the Art Therapy Group and the members of the Organised Water Choir.

We are grateful to the TAC and Uniting Church Synod of Victoria and Tasmania for their ongoing support of Time for Remembering.

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Trauma and children

When a child experiences trauma, their age and level of maturity can influence how they react. Some children find it hard to understand their feelings and struggle to verbalise them. Despite the difference in their ability to describe what they are experiencing, children can be affected by the same range of reactions an adult experiences following a traumatic event.

A child’s age impacts on the way they express their distress and what they may need to recover. There are some signs to look out for in children who may be having difficulties but do not necessarily lead to long-term problems. Most are normal and will resolve in time with the help of caring family members and friends.

Some of the signs to watch for include:
• Reliving the trauma through dreams, play, preoccupation with traumatic events
• Distress when reminded of the traumatic event
• Disorganised or agitated behaviour
• Avoiding reminders
• Withdrawal from people
• Losing interest in significant activities
• Over alert – hypervigilance
• Sleep trouble
• Unusually clingy
• Physical discomfort
• Changes in behaviour eg. regression

HOW TO HELP
It’s important to recognise that the child’s behaviour may be a response to the trauma. Reassure the child that they are safe. Have open honest communication about the experience, including both talking and listening. Give the child special attention and allow them to express their emotions. Offer comfort when they are distressed. Correct any misunderstandings or unwarranted fears.

Give clear honest information in an age-appropriate way. Encourage enjoyable activities and have quality family time together. Maintain routine where possible. Using creative practices such as drawing or writing about the experience helps children to understand and process their feelings. Using play for young children is another way to help them communicate and process what they are feeling. Normalise any emotions they experience.

WHEN TO GET PROFESSIONAL HELP
If the reactions described in this post are severe or continue for an extended period, the child could be experiencing a more serious reaction and may need professional help. Contacting a health practitioner is also recommended if a child is experiencing:
• Severe and continued sleep disturbance
• Severe anxiety when separated from loved ones
• Continued fears about things which may remind the child of the trauma
• Behaviour problems at home or school
• Self-doubts, withdrawal or other significant changes in emotions or personality
• A return to ‘babyish’ behaviour that the child had outgrown
• Intense and ongoing emotional upset
• Substance use, dangerous or risk-taking behaviours.

We offer free state-wide professional counselling to anyone impacted by road trauma and are open Monday to Friday between 9 am and 5 pm. To make an appointment call 1300 367 797.

Paul Illman Honorary Life Membership

Paul has been a volunteer with Road Trauma Support Services Victoria (RTSSV) since 2008.  Paul speaks at our Road Trauma Awareness Seminar (RTAS) about his experiences as a member of the Melbourne Fire Brigade (MFB).

RTAS facilitators who have worked with Paul describe him as dependable and sincere, and someone who always displays a positive attitude towards the participants. RTAS facilitator, Peter Carolan said that since the early days, Paul has demonstrated a willingness to attend RTAS even after a busy and full-day at work or when on leave.

Paul has also been a critical player in increasing community awareness about the ‘ripple effect’ of road trauma, something he reinforces in the seminars and mentioned by RTAS participants in their feedback after the seminars. We welcome Paul as a life member and sincerely thank him for everything he has done for us.

Jan Dilworth Honorary Life Membership

In 2009, when Jan retired, and she decided to become a volunteer with Road Trauma Support Services Victoria (RTSSV). Due to her background in administration, Jan felt she could be most useful helping in the office. For the last ten years, Jan has been coming into the office every Friday afternoon to input the data from the Road Trauma Awareness Seminar (RTAS) program evaluations.

Jan has very much become part of the RTSSV family, and although the work she does for us does not put her in the public eye, it is extremely important to us as it shows the impact that RTAS has on the program’s participants and is, therefore, the information we use regularly. Although Jan is a quiet achiever, her presence in the office never goes unnoticed.

We warmly welcome Jan as a life member, and we would like to officially thank you Jan, for your commitment to RTSSV, for all the work you have done over the last ten years and for just being you.

Celebrating 25 Years

Road Trauma Support Services Victoria is turning 25

Join us to celebrate our birthday

5:30pm – 7:30pm Thursday 31 October 2019
Box Hill Pavilion
1155 Whitehorse Road, Box Hill, VIC 3128

Light refreshments will be served.

RSVP by Friday 25 October 2019, places strictly limited.
1300 367 797 or office.manager@rtssv.org.au

Our history

Road Trauma Support Services Victoria (RTSSV) was founded in 1994 by a small group of people whose lives had been directly impacted by road trauma. These people understood the need for a specialist service where support could be offered to those who, like them, were suffering because of the injury or loss of a loved one on the roads. They joined with professionals working in the area to provide counselling and support.

From this humble beginning in 1994, RTSSV has grown to offer state-wide counselling and support any Victorian affected by a road incident. RTSSV now comprises a team of staff and volunteers who provide support and education services to more than 7,000 people annually.

In 2015 RTSSV celebrated its 21st birthday and produced a booklet called 21 years.